How to be a Victor, not a Victim

How do you keep going through the darkest nights of the soul? How do you take the worst things that happened to you and turn them into fuel for good?  How do you shift from victim to victor?  ​

Guest Bio:
Fatima Oliver is devoted to helping others become their best selves.  She is a survivor of the kinds of trauma, abuse, and personal tragedy that would break most people, but she found a way to keep going, heal, and thrive. Now she wants to reach back and help others find their way out.  
Fatima has an MBA and the financial knowledge and skills to go with it.  She’s written a memoir sharing her story titled, "The Prescription is in the Dirt."  If that’s not enough interesting bio to intrigue you, she also toured as a backup singer with the Righteous Brothers for 4 years.  

Listen to the whole episode for a deeply meaningful conversation about surviving and thriving, finding our voices, and paying it forward with the multi-talented badass boss, Fatima Oliver.

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Music Credits: A Hawaiian in Paris feat.-Pierre-Grill

SHOW NOTES: 
Fatima’s Key Takeaways for the Soul Healing Journey: 

•  Have a safe place to fall - an engaged support group who wants the best for you
• Avoid the victim mindset 
  • Make a commitment to reach out for help and move on 
• It’s OK to not be OK - it’s not OK to stay that way
• Turn your pain into purpose

Do a Science:

• Imagine you most wonderful day.
• What are three things that you would do on that wonderful day.
• Incorporate at least two of those things per day. 

 Episode References:

• Connect with Fatima
  • Website
  • LinkedIn
  • Instagram
  • Facebook 
• The Prescription is in the Dirt

Other relevant Episodes: 

• Episode 42 How To Turn Setback Into Success with Melanie Banayat.
• Episode 76 How to be 88% Happy with Dr. Marissa Pei.